Tuesday, January 29, 2008

A spare minute over for mummy to blog!

It's been a week since the last post... The week has been really busy, especially since Noah has been really clingy lately. The chiropractor has done wonders to bub's (and our) sleep at night but it seems that his colic symptoms persists during the day and Noah wants to be skin to skin all day long.

We have learnt from the chiro that when babies are born posterior, or with forceps or suction cup their nerv endings in neck and back can get jammed which causes colic symptoms and stomach crampings. Chiro treatments for these babies have a success rate of 94% so we are hoping that Noah will be one of those... Since Noah was born with all three (posterior, with forceps AND suction), the poor little fella has a real tight neck and lower back pain. We have enrolled him in a colic program that involves 6-8 visits to the chiro where he adjusts the back as well as gives him massage and acupressure. So far we have been twice and the next appointment is this arvo.

At the first visit, Noah had cramping when we came in and he was quite upset and screamed through out the whole treatment. About a minute after the chiro finished his work, Noah just suddenly stopped crying, opened his eyes and and stared with a stunned face at us for a second and then fell asleep! The chiro instructed us to rush home and go to bed, as after the first treatment the babies can sleep for up to six (!) hours. He also said that the real results from the treatment show after a week or two and we will probably feel like it's a completely different baby :-).

After the treatments with the chiro the feeding seems to come along better as well- I guess that the feeding hasn't been too pleasant for Noah if he has had such bad neckpain... I've told him several times "no monkey business on the boob- please eat don't sleep". And now it seems that he is finally grasping what he is supposed to do, and we are actually enjoying it!










The pictures above are from this morning. Again of poor quality since they are taken with a mobilephone...

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Busy week

This week the calendar is filled with appointments- meeting up with the lactation specialists, child health nurses, the physio and a chiropractor, all to get things on track!

Met up with the nurse yesterday and she had excellent news. Even though Noah and I are struggling a little with the feeding he has managed to put on nearly 300 grams since last Friday.

This morning we also met with the lactation specialist who saw improvements in our technique of feeding- thank God Noah's lip has healed properly!

Also had a chat to the physio today about my sore wrists. It has been a hassle through the late pregnancy and has continued after birth as well. She confirmed that I have carpal tunnel syndrome and some 'bony' build up in the wrists. I must therefore wear thumb bandage on both hands 24/7 and eat anti inflammatory tablets for as long as needed. Apparently this can mean months in bandage and on tablets! Preferably I should minimise household duties, lifting Noah, changing him and even bath him. Since breastfeeding is a duty that requires lots of movement in the hands and wrists, she also pointed out that I shouldn't feel bad if I decide not to give the baby the breast. To get any better, I must rest the wrists. But hey, that is easier said than done!
Tomorrow we are seeing a chiropractor that specialises in newborns and babies that were posterior at birth. When the baby lays 'wrong' in the womb, it may cause some pain in the baby's back and when born it may struggle to sleep on its back and even get tummy aches. Since Noah was in a posterior position and get stomach aches and prefers sleeping on his side, we have decided to pay the chiro a visit. Hopefully we'll see an improvement after tomorrow :-)!

Drive faster Daddy! Zzzzz......

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

More pics from the hospital

After a hard labour, it was all smiles :-)

Monday, January 21, 2008

A Very Proud Daddy


Noah and Pappa at our good friend Oliver's birthday BBQ last Saturday night. Noah was on his best behaviour and charmed all the girls at the party.

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Noah's first week


Our digital camera broke down the day before Noah was born- the following pictures have been taken with our mobilephones, hence the poor resolution....




To the left: Noah 13 Jan, only 1 day old, snuggling in the cot at the hospital.




His lip has healed up here but nose and forehead are still pretty bad- bloody foreceps...





Noah and Pappa at home in the sofa



So good to be home...

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Back at home!

I'm taking the opportunity to write a little something since Noah is asleep, there is not much time between the feeding.
We are back home, got discharged on Tuesday, late evening. We were welcome to stay another night or two but as the milk hadn't come yet and I was so tired, I thought the best was to be at home in a relaxing environment to await the arrival of milk. Due to my excessive blood loss (1.6 litres) and fever spikes I was told that the milk may be slightly delayed. I suspected that after having a total of only 4 hours since Thursday night also contributed to the delay. So we checked out!
We came home at 11 pm. What a lovely feeling to carry Noah over the doorstep and to introduce him to our home. Shawn and Noah cuddled up, I had a long shower and then we hit the sack. At 2 am my breast were like ballons and there was no stop to the flow- Noah was in heaven! And personally I felt quite pleased that I had trusted my instinct, that sometimes you just need your loved ones around you to get things working...

I took the time to read Shawn's posts on our blog, and I don't have much to add really. Both of us were 'a bit' stunned by the whole experience, what a thrill to become a parent! That we had planned to have a labour in a friendly Birth Centre and ended up in a Intensive Care Unit is not really that bad after all. We had great care at the hospital and everyone was very lovely and I don't feel upset about not having a 'drug free' birth. If all goes well, a drug free birth is of course the optimal, however, you need to keep an open mind in case things go wrong...Drugs or not, in the end, Noah was born and he is snoozing away in our sofa right now, and that's all that matters. How lovely to have a healthy little child snuggling up with us here at home! I look at him and can't believe that he is ours!! I can't understand that he was in my belly up to just a few days ago...

We have of course taken more photos of Noah, but our digital camera broke down the other days, so we have to develop photos from another camera which holds regular film before we can post any on the blog.

Noah is healing quickly and the damage that was done by the blades of the forceps will heal up and there will be no scarring. He is still a bit taken by the birth and also has some swelling on the back of his head that causes headache but he seems to be more alert now, especially after the milk supply began. He has started to put on weight which is excellent news and the nurses that did the home visit today said he is looking very well.

Quickly regarding my health- I'm recovering well. The reason for the blood loss was a bleed in the uterus that suddenly occured directly after Noah was delivered. I'm still a bit weak but am eating iron tablets so in a few weeks I shouldn't feel as dizzy and tired. No more fever but still on antibiotics and anti inflammatory tablets. The cut is healing fine and in a week I should be able to get around as usual. I'm feeling very happy and can't wait to learn more about motherhood!